April 1, 2020
The longtime Hollywood actor looks back. "What does it mean to be a ham?" asks the author, rhetorically. "Was I a ham? I was naturally and inordinately theatrical. I liked to carry on. I liked attention. I liked extravagant speech. I liked to emote. I liked to talk." All of these qualities are abundantly evident in Kilmer's memoir, which is as much a spiritual journey as it is a chronicle of his life and career. The author recounts the depth of his Christian Science faith, his formative years in a family of privilege in Los Angeles, his teenage romance with fellow actor Mare Winningham ("my first real girlfriend"), his training and rebellion at Juilliard, and his decision to leave Broadway for Hollywood. There, he writes, "I was not yet a burgeoning talent but 'Cher's lover, ' " when she was in her mid-30s and he in his early-20s. After scoring big with Tom Cruise in Top Gun, Kilmer turned down Blue Velvet and Dirty Dancing: "Neither part spoke to me." He played Jim Morrison in Oliver Stone's The Doors, which he considers "one of the proudest moments of my career." Marlon Brando and Sam Shepard went from being idols that Kilmer worshipped to becoming friends. He was slated to star as Batman in three films but jumped ship after Batman Forever, which he considers "so bad, it's almost good." He married and divorced British actor Joanne Whalley and wooed Daryl Hannah ("kind of the female me, only better"), and he wrote and starred in a one-man show as Mark Twain. When he was hospitalized for surgery due to his throat cancer, he prayed, he read Twain and Christian Science's Mary Baker Eddy, and he "didn't wrestle with my angels. I sang and danced with them." Kilmer was never a shrinking violet, and he still refuses to wilt. An above-average celebrity memoir from an intriguing spirit. (photos)
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